July 24, 2025: Jennifer Lopez recently ignited the stage at the Lucca Summer Festival in Italy, captivating the audience and making headlines with her candid — and now viral — comments. The singer and actress, who turns 56 soon, didn’t hold back, seemingly boasting about her sex life while also taking a thinly veiled jab at her ex-husband, Ben Affleck.
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New Music, Old Flames?
During her performance, J.Lo debuted her new song, “Up All Night,” which many speculate directly references her recently ended marriage to Affleck. She sang, “I’m up all night, dancing on somebody, living my best life. I bet you wish that you were by my side. I got tired of you breaking me down.” This aligns with earlier reports suggesting her new album draws inspiration from her experiences with Ben. The Sun reported, “Wreckage Of You was so specifically about Ben, and Up All Night points to where Jennifer is at in her life right now. This is a whole new era for Jennifer and she isn’t going to be holding back.”
Bedroom Secrets Revealed
Lopez then delved into some surprisingly personal territory, sharing intimate details with the crowd. “I have to be honest with you, sometimes I get in different moods at night. I don’t know about you but I do, and sometimes I like it hard,” she confessed. She continued, “Other days, I am feeling a little romantic. You put on candles and soft music. On those days, I like it real slow. But there’s other days… maybe because it’s a new kind of time for me, maybe because it’s summertime and it’s hot outside, I feel a little more naughty.” The crowd reportedly erupted as she added, “You ever get that feeling? Where you feel like being naughty? On those days, I like it real fast.”
She also joked that for the rest of her European tour, she’s decided to forego “love songs” in favor of her “anti-love songs.”
A Repeated Romance’s End
Jennifer and Ben officially divorced after two years of marriage, marking the end of their second romantic chapter. The couple initially met and became engaged in the early 2000s, only to call off their wedding. Their romance rekindled years later, leading to their marriage in 2022 and eventual divorce in 2025.