The pop star celebrated her pre-wedding bash in Cabo San Lucas, Mexico, with her closest girlfriends. But the noticeable absence of her long-time best friend has left fans speculating about the reason for her no-show.
August 25, 2025: Over the weekend, pop singer Selena Gomez was seen in Cabo San Lucas celebrating what looked like her bachelorette party. Fans went crazy trying to figure out why her closest pal Taylor Swift wasn’t there.
Gomez, who is 33 years old, was having a great time on a luxurious yacht with some of her best friends, such Ashley Cook and Courtney Lopez. The pictures, which have gone viral on social media, show the bride-to-be in a black one-piece swimsuit, dancing, and drinking drinks in the sun. Benny Blanco, 37, her fiancé and a music producer, was also said to be having his bachelor party in Las Vegas.
Gomez’s friends were all there for the pre-wedding events, but Taylor Swift, who has been Gomez’s friend for almost 20 years, was missing. This has raised concerns. People on social media instantly started to guess what was going on. One fan on Reddit said that Swift would be enjoying a rare weekend off with her boyfriend, NFL player Travis Kelce, in Kansas City.
Swift is on the guest list for the couple’s wedding in California in September, even though she missed the bachelorette party. Some sources believe Swift has even joked about being the “flower girl,” while others think she might be a bridesmaid or perhaps the maid of honor.
Selena Gomez and Benny Blanco got engaged in December 2024. They started dating in June 2023. It looks like their wedding will be a private event for close friends and family.