A Bengaluru techie’s candid post about financial struggles despite a high salary has ignited a larger conversation about urban cost of living and financial insecurity.
March 18, 2025: In a reality check that has resonated with many urban professionals, a Bengaluru-based techie recently took to the Indian Workplace subreddit to share his struggles of living in the city despite earning ₹1.5 lakh per month. His post, titled “Why does life in a metro feel so fragile?”, has since gone viral, sparking discussions about financial insecurity, urban expenses, and the growing burden of responsibilities.
A Dream That Feels ‘Fragile’
The 26-year-old techie, who lives in Bengaluru with his fiancée, described how his salary, which might seem substantial on paper, barely provides financial security.
“I’m a 26M living in Bangalore with my to-be wife 26F. I earn about ₹1.5L per month and have my family and an EMI to take care of in my hometown. I save up some money each month, let’s say about ₹30-40k,” he wrote.
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Why does life in a metro feels so fragile ?
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Growing up, he imagined a fulfilling life in Bengaluru—earning well, enjoying city life, and building a future with his partner. However, the reality of high living costs, financial commitments to family, and housing expenses has made him feel like he’s “balancing a fragile pot of flowers.”
Cost of Living vs. Financial Security
Despite earning a high salary compared to the average Indian professional, his post sheds light on how rapid urbanization and rising costs make financial stability elusive. With loan EMIs, household expenses, and family responsibilities, even a ₹1.5 lakh salary doesn’t guarantee comfort.
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His concerns reflect a broader sentiment among young professionals navigating an expensive urban life while trying to build savings for an uncertain future.
The Internet Reacts: “Income Isn’t Wealth”
The post triggered widespread discussions about the financial realities of urban living, with many users offering advice or sharing similar experiences.
- One user pointed out the difference between income and actual financial stability:
“Income isn’t wealth. The only people who are truly secure are those with generational wealth. The rest of us are just surviving.” - Another summed up the harsh reality of adulthood:
“Welcome to adult life. Constant anxiety and money worries are the norm.” - Some users advised diversifying income sources:
“Consider exploring secondary income options, whether through investments, side businesses, or encouraging a dual-income household.”
A Broader Urban Challenge
The viral post has sparked an important conversation about financial planning, job security, and the cost of living in India’s metropolitan cities. With skyrocketing real estate prices, increasing rent, and rising daily expenses, even high earners find themselves struggling to save enough for the future.
While many advise better financial management or additional income streams, the core issue remains—urban living is becoming increasingly expensive, and young professionals are bearing the brunt of it.
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